We tend to believe that others make us feel as we do and that our emotions are an inevitable and rational response to the world around us. ("She ignored me and that made me depressed.") Cognitive therapists disagree strongly with this interpretation of events, arguing that our beliefs make us depressed/sad/angry/glad.
We generally believe:
Cognitive therapists propose that:
Make at least ten observations of situations where you experience a negative or uncomfortable emotion, using the following process:
Record this process as soon as possible after the activating event. Your initial records may be brief, although you may want to make them more detailed later.

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Last updated August 31, 1998
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